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Tuesday, 08 May 2012
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10 Things No One Tells You About Getting Engaged
No matter how long you and your fiancé dated or how many times you've been a bridesmaid in your friends' weddings, there are some truths you just don't find out about until you get engaged.
1. A You'll have a big zit on your chin the day he proposes.
Okay, maybe you won't (or didn't). But the point is that whatever fantasy proposal you had dreamed up (at the most romantic place in the world, wearing the most perfect dress, with the best hair and complexion you've ever had) isn't reality.
Our Advice: Your proposal story -- whether it happened on the couch in your PJs with no makeup on, or in the middle of the Caribbean in a hot swimsuit -- is more important (and special) than that fantasy proposal you might have had in your head. Why? Because it's your story and no one else's.
2. You won't be able to stop staring at your hand.
Maybe you went ring shopping together and picked it out yourself, or maybe it was a total surprise. Either way, there's a big difference between imagining it on your hand and actually seeing that brand-new shiny ring on your finger.
Our Advice: Everyone is going to want to see the ring, so get a manicure (and be careful gawking at your hand while driving or crossing busy intersections!).
3. You'll have to tell your proposal story a million times.
As soon as you get engaged, one of the first questions people will ask is how he proposed. Get used to it. Telling and retelling the story is part of the fun of being engaged.
Our Advice: To make it easier on yourselves, write down your proposal story (put it on your wedding website and in your online wedding planner) and send friends and family the link so that they can get the full details.
4. People will ask you about a wedding date and location before you've had a chance to even think about it.
You know how it goes: Everyone is excited. But before you've even had time to sign up on TheKnot.com and start your checklist, your family and friends are already asking for details.
Our Advice: If you have no idea where and when the wedding will be, come up with a blanket statement you can use whenever someone asks. Say something like, "We're so excited just being engaged right now. I'm sure there will be plenty of time to figure out the logistics in the coming months." They'll take the hint.
5. There might be a few sours...
There's usually at least one friend or family member who may not come off quite as supportive or elated as the rest of them. If this doesn't happen to you, be thankful, because you're in the minority.
Our Advice: A not-so-positive reaction to your good news is a reflection of that person (not you). Don't dwell on negative feedback. Focus on the positive -- you're getting married!
6. ...But your best friends will be there for you.
You'll know the people you can count on. They're the ones who post five-exclamation-point messages to your Facebook wall the minute you announce your engagement; they're the ones who take you out for drinks the day after you get engaged to celebrate; they're the ones who tell you they're ready to help you with whatever you need.
Our Advice: Lean on the friends who express excitement for you (and celebrate your newly engaged status often!).
7. Recently married friends will suddenly become wedding planning experts and give you (oftentimes unsolicited) advice.
There are plenty of reasons this happens. Some friends may be going through the "postwedding blues" and miss the excitement of planning their own weddings. Others may just think they're doing you a favor.
Our Advice: If a friend offers wedding planning advice (say, "You shouldn't invite kids to your wedding," or anything else that starts with, "You should/shouldn't..."), take it in stride. Graciously accept it as a sign of their friendship (there's no need to get defensive). If you agree with the advice, take it; if not, thank them and move on with your plans.
8. You'll watch wedding movies and TV shows differently.
Whether you've seen dozens of Say Yes to the Dress episodes, or you wouldn't be caught dead watching a "cheesy wedding show," you might now find yourself a little (or a lot) more interested in wedding movies and shows.
Our Advice: Rent Father of the Bride, My Best Friend's Wedding and Rachel Getting Married -- and don't feel bad about sitting through and enjoying a TLC wedding special or two. This is one of those guilty wedding pleasures that you're totally allowed to indulge in while you're engaged.
9. You'll have a hard time not jumping into wedding planning right away and will find it difficult to "just enjoy being engaged."
Sure, you recognize there's a long road ahead of you and there's plenty of time to plan out a wedding. But after the shock wears off, the next natural step is to start working out wedding plans.
Our Advice: It's okay (and good!) to get started early -- just be sensitive to him. He more than likely just spent a lot of money and time planning out the proposal. So give him a little time to relax if he needs it. A few things you can get started on right away: planning out the guest list (at least your family and friends) and documenting your proposal story.
10. Your relationship will feel different (even if you've been living together for years).
A marriage proposal is exciting, but it's also serious. You've just agreed to commit to one another -- for forever.
Our Advice: Work out the nitty-gritty details you may have only touched upon when you were dating. Decide what you'll do for holidays every year, whether you want kids, where you want to live long term. Make actual plans. Even if they change, it's good to know where you both stand on the big topics. If you're not required to through your church or temple, consider signing up for prewedding counseling, where you'll be led through the process by a pro. Having worked out hard-to-make decisions together will make the wedding ceremony that much more meaningful.http://living.msn.com/love-relationships/weddings/10-things-no-one-tells-you-about-getting-engaged
Monday, 30 April 2012
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Royals riding high in media a year after wedding
LONDON (Reuters) - One year after some two billion people around the world tuned into watch Prince William marry Kate Middleton, the global media remain captivated with the lives of the now Duke and Duchess of Cambridge.
The wedding fervour, which saw a million Britons cram the streets of London on April 29, 2011 to catch a glimpse of the future king and queen, has inevitably faded with the memory of the fairytale dresses, uniforms and horse-drawn carriages.
But royal watchers and many members of the public believe the couple have boosted the monarchy's popularity and offer an escape for a nation beset by recession, unemployment and financial insecurity.
Even if, as naysayers argue, the duke and duchess are merely celebrities whose wealth and style are out of reach of all but a few, their popularity reaches far beyond Britain.
Media outlets in Britain, the United States, Canada and beyond remain enamoured with Catherine and second-in-line-to-the-throne Prince William.
"I think it's been a complete triumph for them," Claudia Joseph, a biographer of Catherine, said of their first year of married life.
Where the couple, and their PR team, have been particularly successful, commentators say, is in projecting the image of a relatively ordinary pair, albeit it one that has access to palaces, castles, glitzy red carpets and the odd butler or two.
While William has been working as a rescue helicopter pilot in north Wales, they have stayed in a rented home on the island of Anglesey, a move that has helped them build the "couple-next-door" idea.
"William drives himself to work, enjoys a pint in the local pub, Kate shops at the local supermarket, cooks for her husband, they go for walks, go to cinema, watch television," Joseph said.
MEDIA MESMERISED
Some newspapers have followed the royal couple with a commitment bordering on obsession.
Barely a day goes by when either the Daily Mail or Daily Telegraph -- as right-leaning publications natural allies to the monarchy -- do not splash images of them over their pages, usually accompanied with gushing prose.
On Friday, the Daily Mail featured photographs of the duke and duchess attending an official function on its front page and again on page 3 and 27.
The Telegraph devotes its main front page picture to Prince William holding a baby and page 4 to a story of how Queen Elizabeth and father-in-law Prince Charles get on well with Catherine.
Often stories are about official engagements, including visits to charities, trips abroad and movie premieres.
They also focus on fashion, with the duchess seen as a key arbiter of taste whose choice of clothes and accessories sends items flying off the high street shelves.
"Catherine's style spans the catwalk and the high street and she is a great champion of British brands, making her an excellent style ambassador," said Caroline Rush, chief executive of the British Fashion Council.
In one of the more bizarre examples, pictures of the duchess playing field hockey led to a surge in interest in the sport -- one online retailer saw sales of hockey sticks surge 238 percent in the days after she paid a visit to the British Olympic team.
Some articles have ventured into pure speculation.
"Kate Middleton's sexy underwear secret revealed!" ran a headline on the website of celebrity Now magazine, followed by an unsourced story based on conjecture.
If and when the couple have a baby is currently top of the "guessing games", followed by speculation over whether the duchess has an eating disorder -- a sensitive topic given that William's late mother Princess Diana, to whom Kate is inevitably compared, suffered from bulimia.
Coverage has extended to Kate's sister Pippa, who also shot to global fame as a result of her appearance as maid of honour at the royal wedding.
A recent trip to party in Paris may have caused royal blushes after Pippa was criticised for being photographed in a car with a man wielding what looked like a pistol at pursuing paparazzi.
Generally, however, the press has been overwhelmingly favourable, although anti-monarchist group Republic counters that support for the royals is weaker than headlines suggest.
It said this week that polls showed a fall in the number of people believing Britain would be worse off without the royals -- down to 51 percent from 63 percent this time last year.
Only 41 percent said they believed the monarchy was a unifying force, with 32 percent saying it made no difference.
"These polls put the lie to the claim that the monarchy is enjoying a resurgence of popularity," Republic's chief executive Graham Smith said. "No poll over the past 18 months has shown any increase in support for the monarchy."
FEEL-GOOD FACTOR
However, royal officials believe that austere economic times have added to the monarchy's allure.
"Continuity and stability has strength in its own rights while everything else is in a state of flux," one senior royal aide told Reuters on condition of anonymity, due to the palace's demands for discretion in dealing with the press.
"One of its roles in a way is to provide a sort of ballast to the nation, a solid foundation, and it probably comes to the fore more obviously in difficult times.
"You saw that with the royal wedding last year. People realised they could have a celebration. It was something that people turned to very naturally."
The queen may well be grateful to her grandchildren for casting the royals in a positive light, following a series of scandals including popular Diana's death in a Paris car crash aged 36.
The 86-year-old monarch is gearing up for a weekend of national celebrations in early June to mark her 60th year on the throne, a spectacular event expected to draw more huge crowds to London and media attention from around the world.
In sharp contrast to their very public wedding, the duke and duchess will be avoiding the limelight on their anniversary on Sunday at a long-planned event with friends at an undisclosed location in Britain, their spokesman said.
Wednesday, 25 April 2012
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Silhouettes Tailored to Every Woman
Jonathan Browning for The New York TimesTadashi Shoji in his office and studio in Shanghai. He plans to open two boutiques in China. More Photos »
By NICOLE LaPORTE
Published: April 20, 2012
“SHE signed it for me — she is so cute! So sweet!” the designer Tadashi Shoji gushed as he lovingly clutched a piece of paper to his chest. On it was the original sketch he had made of the gown that the actress Octavia Spencer had worn to the Academy Awards in February. Next to the drawing of the gown, an elaborately draped white sheath covered in sparkly beads, Ms. Spencer had signed her name, along with the words: “Love you!”
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Ms. Spencer would go on to take home an Oscar for her supporting role in “The Help.” But even if she hadn’t, her dress would have been a winner on Hollywood’s biggest night, landing her on many a best-dressed list. In addition to its feminine elegance, the garment was praised for the way it transformed Ms. Spencer’s voluptuous curves into more slimming contours.
“She’s not a thin-thin girl, so I had to give the illusion of her as tall and thin,” said Mr. Shoji, 64.
The diminutive Japanese designer, whose close-cropped hair is speckled with gray, was at his studio near downtown Los Angeles, sitting in a Zen-like showroom that was minimally decorated with an orchid and Japanese art. The only blast of color was Mr. Shoji himself, who was wearing a cobalt blue cardigan and a pink polo shirt buttoned up to his neck.
“And she is always conscious of her upper arms, so I wanted to hide that,” he added of Ms. Spencer, taking a delicate sip of green tea that had been delivered by two assistants who bowed ever so slightly as they left the room.
Mr. Shoji is not a household name, but for years women whose silhouettes don’t conform to sample sizes have sought out his relatively affordable evening wear (his dresses retail for $400 to $900) at department stores like Neiman Marcus and Bloomingdale’s. A fan of stretchy, non-constrictive fabrics and patterns that prize comfort and wearability, Mr. Shoji does not discriminate against size or age. (His motto is “17 to 70.”) While most designers don’t deign to make a garment larger than a Size 10 or 12, Mr. Shoji’s pieces run up to Size 16, and, in some cases, 24 or “queen size,” as he puts it.
But since the debut of his higher-end runway collection at New York Fashion Week in 2007, Mr. Shoji, like Bradley Bayou before him, has quietly become a go-to designer not just for the masses, but for celebrities who aren’t cut out for the latest bodice-clenching creations from Prada or Balenciaga. His following is particularly strong among plus-size black stars, like Queen Latifah, Oprah Winfrey and Mo’Nique, who wore an electric blue gown from Mr. Shoji’s 2010 spring collection to that year’s Academy Awards, where she won best supporting actress for the film “Precious.”
“That was a big surprise,” Mr. Shoji said of Mo’Nique’s gown, which was his Oscar debut. “Mine was a backup dress. She had another designer designing, and then the morning she tried it on, she didn’t like it and the stylist didn’t like it, so she wore my dress.”
At this year’s Oscars, Mr. Shoji’s name was again evoked on the red carpet, as members of the fashion police ooh-ed and ahh-ed over Ms. Spencer’s dress.
“It fit her body beautifully,” said the fashion stylist Jessica Paster. “She looked absolutely stunning.” The enthusiasm is still being felt. In the weeks since, Mr. Shoji said that he has been fielding a barrage of calls from stylists, international buyers (his collections are sold in 4,000 department stores in 40 countries), and “some girl who wants to wear one of my dresses to a wedding — just a regular customer.”
But his biggest devotees remain his clients — who, it should be noted, also include wasp-waisted stars like Kate Beckinsale, who wore a gauzy, cream-colored concoction from Mr. Shoji’s spring collection to announce the Independent Spirit Award nominations last November.
Still, it is shapelier women like Gabourey Sidibe, another Oscar nominee for “Precious,” who most appreciate Mr. Shoji’s smoke-and-mirrors ability to “turn your body into the type of silhouette you really want without having to get surgery,” said Ms. Sidibe, who has discussed her weight issues publicly, including a heart-to-heart with Ms. Winfrey.
His dresses “really hide exactly what it is you want to hide,” she continued, referring to the silk and chiffon gown that she wore to the British Academy of Film and Television Awards in 2010. “It made me feel like a super hero.”
Asked about the designer’s following among black women, Ms. Sidibe attributed it to the fact that “African-American women are possibly more curvy.” But, she added, “there aren’t any secret, black meetings where we’re all whispering his name, or anything like that.”
Monday, 09 April 2012
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